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让孩子自己掌管零食

Author: caren_zuo  Date: 2007-08-02 16:56


        我接触孙瑞雪的教育理念有两年了，但是一直没有接受“让孩子自己掌管零食”这一条。

　　我每周都会带荻荻去超市，让她挑选四到五样自己的零食。买回来后我放在柜橱里。柜橱很高，她够不着，每次她想吃的时候需要征得我的同意并请大人帮忙。这和孙瑞雪的理念是背道而驰的。虽然我清楚这点，但是我一直担心给了她自己掌管零食的自由后，她会控制不住自己，暴吃暴饮，不好好吃饭，最后造成营养不良。

　　前些日子和荻荻好朋友的妈妈谈起这个问题，她说了孙老师的一句话“比起孩子的身体健康来，心理健康更重要。”我思索了好久，觉得应该给与她自己吃零食的权利了。
　　
　　两个星期前，我带她从超市买回零食并且告诉她以后可以自己掌管零食。我记得那个晚上她一直都处于兴奋状态，一会问一下：“妈妈，我可不可以吃这个？”　好像还不能相信她真的拥有这个权利了。

　　那是个周六的晚上。她几乎把买来的零食吃了一半。周日白天除去玩，没有时间吃零食。到了周一晚上，她的所有零食都吃完了。不过，还好，她很清楚我的规则：“一个星期的零食吃完了，我也不会给她再买新的。”

　　现在，她对吃零食已经没有了那么狂热。她把零食放在自己的抽屉里，想吃的时候，自己取出来。也不象最初那样抱着零食大吃特吃了。看来，给与她自由，她慢慢得也会学会如何把握自由。不过，需要一个自己摸索的过程。

　　不过，有两点规则还是需要遵守的：１.　饭前一个小时前不能吃零食。２.每周买零食的数量要固定。３.　每周吃糖和巧克力不超过四块。

　　



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